When I’ve written personal notes in my blogs or newsletters they have been received with nothing but love and shared stories or support and for that I am so grateful for you, my community. So as this year comes to a close I wanted to write a little letter of reflection.

Normally at the end of the year I will write my top 10 lessons, and to be honest, each could be its own blog with the amount I could share, but this year I wanted to try something different, weaving in the reflection with the lessons, the stories and the memories.

This year has been one of tremendous learning and growth, both personally and professionally. It is the year I entered a new decade, and quite frankly has been one of the best years of my life.

I like to think of myself as quite an optimistic person. So regardless of the challenges I face, I do always look for the lessons, the silver linings, the positives that came out of the inner turmoil I may have gone through and whilst this year is no different in terms of the number of inner struggles that happened behind the scenes… I feel like something shifted in the way I handled them, or learnt to handle them and approached things with a new level of grace.

This year started on one of the biggest highs as my friend group and I managed to score tickets to Tomorrowland in Belgium (one of the biggest music festivals in the world). Which soon followed booking a month of travel around Europe with my brother and some of my best friends for my 30th birthday!

Yes, this year I hit the big 3-0. I moved house, made some incredible new friends and strengthened relationships with some of the best humans I could ask to have by my side. I got to the happiest and healthiest (and sexiest IMO) I have ever been – and did a photoshoot to capture this! Along with some deep inner healing far beyond gut health and hormones that I didn’t know I needed and I have acquired a level of self-love and acceptance I am so truly grateful for.

After a challenging move in Easter of this year, I moved into a home that has allowed me to expand in so many ways. For someone who is very much an ambivert, I did struggle being in solitude for too long. It seemed to bring up a lot of my fears that I hadn’t quite dealt with before. But this year called for a lot of inner work and uncomfortable situations that called me forward and I am so glad they did.

I had the pleasure this year of going back to working with clients in person, and whilst this only makes up about 10% of my working week, it has been so incredibly fun to see, squeeze (hug) and support my gorgeous clients IRL! As well as feeling like part of a bigger team again. Thank you Les Mills Howick – you’ve always been my extended family.

The biggest transformation happened however, during my travels. I was fortunate enough to have my (not-so-little), little brother as my travelling companion all around Europe for the month of July. We went from London to Greece, to Amsterdam, to Belgium and finished in Ibiza. Collecting friends and incredible memories along the way.

Just prior to this trip I learnt the lesson not to force things in a big way. I had HUGE plans in place, and woke up one morning, the week before I was due to fly and execute said plans with a LOUD voice in my head saying NO. Tears sprung to my eyes, and as much as it meant going against my own plans, I knew that this message, this voice was divine protection and redirection. I cannot tell you the relief I felt when I cancelled said plans and hopped on the plane to London in full surrender.

Whilst I honestly loved every single minute of my travels, yacht week in Greece was quite possibly the best week of my life. The people, the dancing, sailing on the Mediterranean sea. My heart was full, my eyes were opened and I truly felt like myself in ways I never have before. I personally think there’s something magical that happens when you travel. Or maybe it’s just that I give myself more permission to take up space, be me – loud, outgoing, authentic, free Sheree. I had this same experience in the US last year and it’s reminding me to be that full self no matter where I am in the world, or how uncomfortable that may feel.

Once I returned from Europe it was like something had shifted inside. I came back with a new lease on life, new focus in my business, and everything was falling into place beautifully, until it wasn’t. To cut a long story short – I got my heart broke – and whilst the details aren’t necessarily important here, what it did teach me was to pour into the people and relationships I have around me. This was one of my biggest lessons I could’ve learnt and as a result I have created some of the most beautiful friendships a girl could ask for. I have created a true sense of inner peace and joy regardless of any external circumstances or situations. I can honestly say I am the happiest I have ever been in my life and that is not dependent on anyone, or anything. Sure I have my ups and downs, but I know deep in my heart that I am in control of myself, my state, my mindset and how I choose to operate and live my life. And if it is disturbing my peace I am more than happy to let it go.

Which is how I got to focusing on simplifying to amplify. A process I am still deep in the weeds of executing, but the concept from the book ‘10X is Easier than 2X’ has been a game changer to say the least. Working on staying in my zone of genius and letting go and refining, letting go and refining and letting go and refining what’s working and what’s not on every single level has been incredibly empowering. If you haven’t read this book and love personal development, I cannot recommend it enough.

A massive reason I believe I have been able to execute so much of this and arrive at a state of such clarity and inner peace is because of the level of self-awareness curated over the years, and a willingness to do the work when things get hard – and believe me, they got and do get f*cken hard! This is said from a place of love, and compassion vs ego. It is my hope that it serves as a reminder that you are love, your essence is pure joy inside and your ability to smile at the littlest things as well as work through the largest pain or hurt is all down to a choice you make within yourself. We choose whether we shut down our heart and our emotions or keep it open even in the face of adversity. Something I deeply connect with in the book ‘The Untethered Soul’ in the later half of this year. We have that power, we have that gift, we have that choice within us – to be love.

So as I close out this letter I hope there have been some moments that really have resonated with you. Whether it is knowing when to trust and let go, or knowing when to keep showing up and doing the work. Whether it is that you are the creator of your reality and that includes your mindset as well as your community. Or that you hold the power and key to your peace… Know that I am here cheering you on. It is both my wish and my mission, that every single one of you knows they are inherently worthy, and lovable. No matter your past, or present, you hold everything you need inside of you to have an incredible future. Remember, your smile lights up the world and the world is a better place because you are in it.

Thank you for being here and walking this path with me, after all, we are all just guiding each other home 🩷

Much love always, in health and happiness,
Sheree xo